News Summary
In Kansas City, families have faced tremendous heartache during the pandemic, exemplified by April Shaver’s story of losing her mother, Gwen Starkey, to COVID-19. Gwen’s lengthy battle with the virus, which included 322 days on a ventilator, left a lasting impact on April and their family. Despite the challenges, April’s resilience shines through as she honors her mother’s memory while embracing life and cherishing moments with loved ones amidst grief. This narrative highlights the emotional struggles many have endured during this time of loss and hope.
Finding Light in the Darkness of Loss in Kansas City
Kansas City has seen its fair share of heartache, especially as families have navigated the tumultuous journey that was the pandemic. One story that stands out is that of April Shaver, a 40-year-old woman who has been deeply affected by the loss of her beloved mother, Gwen Starkey, to COVID-19 complications in early 2021. At just 61 years old, Gwen’s passing was a tragic reminder of the pain many families have faced during these times.
A Lengthy Battle with COVID-19
Gwen Starkey spent an astonishing 322 days on a ventilator, battling the relentless virus and its devastating complications, which ultimately led to kidney failure. April describes the emotional whirlwind her family faced, as they held onto hope despite the grim nature of the situation.
The challenges became more palpable when several family members contracted the virus following a gathering shortly before the Super Bowl in 2021. What should have been an uplifting event turned into a heart-wrenching ordeal as they found themselves grappling with the illness. When Gwen was hospitalized due to severe breathing issues, no one could have predicted that she would remain in the hospital for nearly an entire year.
Reflecting on Missed Moments
April reminisces about her mother’s aspirations for a well-deserved retirement. After 26 years working at Ford’s Claycomo plant, Gwen had dreams of cherishing time with family, digging in her garden, and exploring new places. She was particularly excited about a planned adventure to seek out geodes in Keokuk, Iowa – a journey that seemed just within reach before COVID-19 turned their lives upside down.
Creative Ways to Stay Connected
With limited hospital visitations, April and her young son found unique ways to keep the connection alive. They drew colorful chalk messages, blew bubbles, and even launched fireworks outside Gwen’s hospital window to brighten her spirits, showcasing the love they held for her despite the walls that kept them apart. April’s father, Troy, was a constant source of support, remaining steadfast by Gwen’s side throughout her battle.
The Long Road to Healing
Gwen finally returned home in February 2022, but the toll of her health struggles was evident. Confined to her bed and reliant on oxygen, both the family and Gwen had to adapt to a new normal. April’s son had lost his best friend, and the family felt an immense void from Gwen’s absence.
Lessons Learned and Living Fully
The isolation brought on by the pandemic allowed April to reflect on her life in meaningful ways. She has discovered a newfound appreciation for living fully, leading to some exciting changes in her life. April decided it was time to embrace joy, buying a dirt bike, getting a boat, and planning trips with family and friends. It’s a testament to the resilience that has emerged from such personal loss.
Keeping Her Mother’s Spirit Alive
To honor her mother’s love for gardening, April began nurturing plants and even got a tattoo featuring gladiolas and dahlias – her mom’s favorite flowers. This tattoo serves as a beautiful tribute that brings her comfort while keeping her mother’s memory alive. As spring approaches, April has plans to plant zinnia seeds saved from Gwen’s garden, continuing the legacy of love and growth that Gwen instilled in her family.
Seeking Comfort in Shared Experiences
For many families mourning COVID-19 victims, the journey of healing can seem daunting. Often, the simplest comforts can help ease the grieving process, emphasizing that the pandemic’s emotional toll has left its mark. With a rolling seven-day average of COVID-19 cases still reported in Kansas City, the specter of this virus continues to loom large. April’s story highlights not just her personal grief, but also the wider emotional and societal shifts experienced during this time.
Embracing Life, One Day at a Time
While the loss of Gwen has created a palpable void, April Shaver’s journey reflects her growth, resilience, and unwavering love for her family. She invites all who hear her story to celebrate life and cherish the moments that matter most. After all, even in the face of adversity, the bond between family can shine through, offering hope to others navigating similar paths of loss in Kansas City and beyond.
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Additional Resources
- Kansas City Star: COVID-19 Article
- Wikipedia: COVID-19
- Washington Post: COVID-19 Deaths in Missouri
- Google Search: COVID-19 Missouri
- Fox 4 KC: Family Urges Vigilance
- Encyclopedia Britannica: COVID-19 Precautions
- KSHB: Changes to COVID-19 Funeral Restrictions
- Google News: COVID-19 Funeral Restrictions
